There are certain things i really really wanna write about... certain things that is rather controvertial... just have to hold back.
Then there are other things. Like bitchings. I really want to complain about a some people... but i can't do that, DUHHHH. The best i can do is use an example... a totally different but still similar story to get my point across...
But u know. There's the whole situation thing. They'll surely know u couldn't possibly be going through the same situation u went through with them with someone else. What are the chances???
Blogging is, in a way, just a landmine waiting to explode... if u write the wrong thing and the wrong person sees it. You're a goner. A something i wrote 6 months ago caused HUGE mess. I do not wanna repeat that with different people. How am i supposed to know they were so sensitive???
Sucks to hold back. Urrrrgh... i have to resort to Dear Diary................
She who loves pink
Malaysian city girl living it up and working it out in metropolitan Melbourne, Australia. In life, always yearning for more, dreamer to the core, Sue
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9 comments:
hey sue lin..
yeah..i totally understand what you're saying..
you can never be totally transparent on your blog because people read it..
but on the other hand..ppl reading it give you motivation to continue blogging..
so it's kinda a 2-way dilemma..
Yeah! I didn't write in my diary in the end. Cuz no one would read it. Don't see why i waste my time writing it there! Haha
Well, wat I usually do is (if I can't hold it in and must blog), I'd wait a few days later or even a week later to blog about it. But I'll be very careful with my words.
This way, there's a better chance the person(s) u r aiming at won't know u r toking bout them.
But of cos, if the situation is very specific, then yeah, I guess it's pretty easy to figure out who/what u meant.
Haha, m I confusing?
Haha, i get what you mean. =) But for me it's better to just resort to the traditional way la. Don't want to waste too much time wording a post.
haha, it's never too good to say what's on your mind, because at times people tend to play around with your words and will create misunderstandings. What i do is even though i'll feel unhappie with someone, i'll just get over it myself because we might now know what tactics they will use to get back on you. Yea, it seems really childish but it happens all the time. Don't reveal what u thought to everyone because i think that will only create more trouble for yourself. =)
Hey Yee Li!
U know, about what u said?? It is exactly what C n A were doing to me. I HAVE no idea what they think. They just keep on saying they have nothing against me when the contrary is so obviously clear.
And i really hate that!! I guess they are trying to have the upper hand... cuz that is the smart -but very sneaky- way la.
Personally would prefer it if everyone politely expresses their disatisfaction and come to an agreement...
Anyway, about the... current issue... it is my fault in a way... maybe if i do write the post, i'll put most the blame on me and emphasis on the fact that it is probably a BIG difference in perception... and possibly even a misunderstanding...
Aiyah, would be so hard to write, that's why i told Joey i won't write. =P
Maybe that's why no one wants to talk things through, too hard 2 say it out. Time consuming too.
Hey again Yee Li!! =)
Sorry about the last comment, nothing agaisnt u... just still bitter at them. Totally understand that u do that probably because u want to avoid getting hurt again...
But i can't understand why they did that to me...
haha, it happens all the time. Even though u do not offend anyone, people will come and find fault with you or do something to provoke for no reason at all. There's only one reason which is they don't like you in the 1st place and they tend to do anything they can to pull you down or breakdown. So, by showing your reaction to them such as blogging is like giving them satisfaction. I know it's not good to doubt your friends but it's ok to be cautious all the time because you'll never know that the person who betrays you is the one you trusted the most. =)
Yup true... whenever i blog about my sad times, failures, or any arguments with Mas, i feel like they are laughing at me
So true, not good to doubt friends (even if they are not friends anymore)... but i can't help it.
By the way, better correct that sentence "But i can't understand why they behave* that* way*..."
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