My Problem// Pros n Cons about Bloggings

My Problem

Oh my god, that person looks SOOO much like ___!! Did he/she get a hair cut??? This person i'm looking at looks so much younger. And his/her posture is somewhat different. Haven't seen ___ in months. Trying to guess if it is him/her, i stared a bit...

In the end, i didn't say hie or whatever it is u do when u see someone u know. Our friendship is already shattered as it is. And i recently did something in attempt to reconcile the friendship (unsuccessfully). Damn it, by not saying greeting him/her, i appear stuck up. And it makes my all effort seem insincere.

I mean, would u forgive someone who claims she is trying to mend ties with u but doesn't even greet ya when she sees ya??

Sigh sigh. I find this paragraph from Memoirs of a Geisha symbolic to me. Just finish the book by the way.

"I'm quite sure she was right. I'd have an easier time over the following years if i hadn't gone on beliving that Nobu would one day forgive me. In the end i had to give up questioning Mameha whether he'd asked about me; it pained me terribly to see her sigh and give me a long, sad look, as if to say sorry i hadn't known better than to hope for such a thing".


Though i really really really wish that things would be like it was, that is not my main problem, it is a problem caused by my problem.

The main problem is i can't recognise faces well.

I have a really hard time recognising someone. I need to look and look and think and think before i recognise the face of a person i just met... And because of that i can't really make friends. I mean... here i go talking to someone alot... blah blah blah... i remember the conversation, of course, but i can't remember their face well.

Then i see them around later on and i don't say hie! What the... if u were that person wouldn't u be offended??

In the above case i probably severed an already broken friendship... =(

And in the future it's gonna be a big problem. In business and practically everywhere, people skills are very important to get further in life. Die die die... i can talk ok. But i can't remember faces.

If i'm a witness of a crime scene... i can't identify the killer la, like that.

Die Die... What if i send the wrong person to jail??? What if the murderer is free to roam cuz i can't identify him/her??? That would be a much bigger problem. Sigh Sigh. Stupid.

Do u have any tips for me to remember faces????



Pros of Blogging

1. Blogs are places where people express. Complain. Where they write about their lives.

So if i complain about how i got cheated by a company, others may know about what i went through if they read my blog and then avoid being cheated...

Right now i'm researching a company.

Should i invest RM150 in them?? Would i get my returns?? Their industry is a very very risky one. I have no idea if they are well established... i wish someone has blogged abt them so i'd know more about them. Not much shows up on Google...

By the way, if i do decide to go ahead and invest in them, i'll remove their name from this post...

2. If u go to a therapist, they tell u to write down your feelings, so blogging is a form of therapy.



Cons of Blogging

1. Well, if u complain about a company and u defame them, they could sue you. So most people, would not write the name of the company they got conned by. Therefore, i'll never know if a company is good or not.

Even Ms Famous Blogger is getting her latest post proof read by various agencies.

2. By blogging, conflicts could arise. I lost the friendship above because i wrote down my feelings in my blog.